Being sexually active involves more than a physical act. It involves your heart and mind as well. You cannot push a button to erase bad memories, which are not easy to forget. Memories of past physical relationships can get in the way of a healthy marriage.
Top 10 Reasons NOT to Have Sex Until Marriage
- Getting pregnant
- Broken heart.
- Getting a sexually transmitted disease or infection
- Messing up a future marriage relationship by carrying emotional baggage with you into the marriage
- Losing self-respect.
- Getting stuck in a ‘sex-only’ rut with your guy.
- Risk losing your reputation.
- Getting distracted from life goals.
- Feeling cheap or used.
- Cheating yourself out of real friendships with the opposite sex.
Why is sexual integrity healthier than sexual promiscuity?
Please consider these harmful consequences when it comes to condoms and STD’s.
- For pregnancy, out of five condoms fail.
- Condoms are not risk free. They are not all tested. They leak and break during usage. They can be damaged under extreme heat and cold during transportation.
- For STD’s, condom failure is much greater.
- Disease particles are much smaller than sperm, which is what condoms were invented to stop.
- Condoms only cover a small area of the body. STD’s can be spread by skin to skin contact where condoms do not cover.
- STD’s are present every day of every month. Condoms are not.
Using condoms is not safe sex. The best way to protect yourself is by waiting until marriage before beginning a sexual relationship.
